Well, ok. I will take you at your word. I guess your question just strikes me as a bit odd is all. I don’t know how to advise you, to be honest. The U.S. is in very bad shape right now. It would not surprise me in the least if, in the next 10 years, our entire political and economic system disappears. We will become a socialist-communist society just like Europe. Europe right now is at a breaking point fiscally and socially. Most of the european countries are overrun with muslims as can be attested to by the riots occuring there during the Benghazi debacle. My brother-in-law who is British, says he will never go back to England because it is overrun with “turks” (his term). Either situation is not a good one.
Since you are not dating this woman, I would advise that you take one step at a time. You are projecting yourself much too far into the future at this point. If you are so smitten with her, as you seem to be, it will be very easy for you to disregard your conservative ideals in order to please this woman. Not a sign of strength or integrity. So, I suppose this will be a little test for you. Good luck with it!