YOu setup your question with such a presumptive, negative point of view.
I’m not sure who you refer to as an Israel first person…
I’m not Israel first, but I do recognize they are our only true ally in the Middle East. I feel they need to be supported so long as they aren’t acting like some evil despot run nation, like every single one of their surrounding neighbors. I don’t mind helping them out. I do have a problem with sending money/arms/aid to their enemies. I think we should support any effort in defense, or retaliation that Israel does. Example, Hezbollah launches an attack from Gaza, we should support the retaliation effort. If Syrians launch a strike on Israel, we should support the counter strike.
I think Obamama would rather we be Israel’s enemy than friend.