First, I’m in complete sympathy with the conservative position opposed to bailing out failing/failed Democrat states/cities by providing them funds over and above DOCUMENTED costs resulting from the pandemic.
That said, I would simply make these two points.
First, politically speaking - this is probably NOT the moment in history to cut off negotiations while making an argument based on opposing increasing the deficit. Small businesses and large segments of the population are really hurting and fearful of hurting more largely as a result of media frenzy/fear mongering.
Second - and I hope I am totally mistaken - but at this point I DO NOT think Pelosi/Democrats want to make a deal and I DO NOT think they will make a deal - no matter what.
Why do I think this? IMHO, for Two reasons:
First, they do not want to give Trump anything that can be promoted as a victory for him. Second, I firmly believe they think they have the election of Biden (and perhaps both houses) pretty well sewn up and they will be able to pass a much, much larger package after January - and, of course - upping the size of the stimulus package by $ trillions will provide them the opportunity to bail out their Democrat produced local government fiscal failures and provide them the perfect cover to cram a huge tax increase up our asses - giving a little with one hand while taking much more with the other
Good luck to us all.